Monday, October 4, 2010

the opponent-process theory of emotion.

http://gettingstronger.org/2010/05/opponent-process-theory/ - lots of CR-worthy information, but the gist of it is explaining the "paradox of why so often our pleasures turn into problematic addictions and, conversely, why our stressful experiences frequently lead to sustained good feelings and even happiness".

just a scientific way of validating that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. and happier too.

and another way to reminding myself that wallowing in self-pity is all too easy. no matter how potentially difficult or painful it might be, i just have to stand up and do something about it.

it's been a long, long time since i gave myself a motivational pep-talk to just wake up, because being unhappy doesn't change anything. a weekend out without touching any work, the opponent-process theory of emotion, or that one-hour endorphin-releasing run around NTU - whatever the reason for this sudden tiny prick of optimism, i just have to work hard as hell to sustain and grow it.